🔮 THE RED WITCH READING #14: When “Boring” Is the Question
From Doktor Snake:
This reading comes from Jayne, living in Olympia, Washington.
She’s 27.
She’s met someone — Nathanial, 30.
On paper, he’s solid.
Dependable.
Kind.
Would probably make a good father — something Jayne knows she wants.
And yet…
“He’s boring,” she says.
“Dull.”
There’s no spark.
No fireworks.
No edge.
She asks the Red Witch: Is this settling? Or is this sanity?
The Red Witch Speaks:
“What you call boring may simply be unfamiliar.”
She says excitement is often confused with unpredictability —
and unpredictability is frequently mistaken for depth.
“Chaos flatters the ego,” she says.
“Stability challenges it.”
The Red Witch does not criticise Jayne —
but she turns the mirror gently.
She asks one question:
“How do you imagine others experience you?”
The life-and-soul of the party.
The energy.
The charm.
But charm is not the same as substance.
“A still lake looks dull to the restless,” she says.
“Until drought comes.”
The Red Witch reminds Jayne that attraction is not static.
It evolves with self-perception.
Sometimes what feels boring is simply a lack of internal reflection.
“Depth recognises depth,” she says.
“If you don’t see it, ask what you’re not yet looking with.”
🜂 The Practice — “Turn the Gaze”
For one week:
Each day, ask yourself — without judgement:
• What do I offer beyond energy?
• How do I show care when no one is watching?
• Would I find myself grounding… or exhausting?
Do not answer quickly.
Let the questions sit.
Then observe Nathanial again — not as entertainment,
but as a human being navigating life.
🜃 Reflection
This is not about settling.
And it is not about forcing desire.
It is about clarity.
Some people are exciting because they mirror our restlessness.
Others feel quiet because they invite us to grow.
The Red Witch does not tell Jayne what to choose.
She simply ensures she is choosing with open eyes —
not reflex.
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